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The company is finally catching Up - Single by choice!

Written By anfaku01 on Sunday, July 3, 2011 | 9:40 AM

Growing up in Toronto showed me that there were all kinds of environments. One of the greatest impact on my life has been a simple trip to Yorkdale young adult. He gave me the chance to see as much of the success, young urban women who have done something crazy... pay for their shoes with their own credit card. Crazy isn't! I used to go to the mall with my mother, and while it was for the goods, I admired the freedom and independence that these women exuded. I remember to say here, then, is how I wanna be when I grow up.

Make no mistake, that it is not that I want to never marry and have a family - just not yet. I chose to do something to me first, which became independent and stable. And guess what (unlike my grandmothers belief), I am not alone.

Recent statistics say that the average age of persons to marry rose. If I look at just my close group of girlfriends, most of us own our own condo, a car and a career that we are working on. We are still the evening with friends and meet new people, but the only difference is that this happens less and that we are on a more limited budget. This does not stop us out and enjoy the freedom to do what we feel like this. Even those of us who are in relationships are our condos instead of moving in with boyfriend to save money. Financial freedom is young women - now more than ever.

It is not to be rich or drive a nice car, instead it is about knowing that we can take care of ourselves and walk in our room for the night, saying: "I did it". It is the most satisfying and rewarding feeling!

It seemed to me that this type of lifestyle may even make our relationship stronger and more effective - who knows? A study of BMO retirement Institute released in 2011: 40 per cent of women will be divorce before their 30th anniversary of the marriage life of women, a fall by an average of 45% the first year after the divorce.

Some people may find these shocking findings, but not me. It is a personal choice to live alone, to work hard and play hard. The choice itself may be the reason why we do it! Chapter in life will include marriage and the family and I could even not to abandon the sanctuary of my condo, but at least I know that I have, and I can do it again should I need or choose from!


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