The elusiveness of happiness! A rat race to find and then if you were lucky to get as keep. Marcus Buckingham research and discoveries in HuffPost based on his book "the paradox of declining female happiness," prompted me to reflect on my own progression in the life of happiness and the happiness of hundreds of women I worked with over the past 10 years as a coach of intimacy and relationship.
What is happiness anyway? I've grown older I became happier. And that not only has to do with who now own a business, make a difference in the lives of men and women and are the most stimulating relationship with my beloved, and business partners. This is rather a result of something else.
After all happiness is a State of being! And how did you get to that State of being? For me this has occurred through two major life experiences that I awoke to the State: an experience he had to do with "accept" what is "at the moment and that I choose to be happy that I learned through the Buddhist meditation at Plum Village of Thich Nhat Hanh. That philosophy is entirely in line with what Buckingham identifies in its findings: "women who could respond positively to the questions [regarding happiness] ... has simply decided they were going to be happy. They made that choice. "
The experience of other had to do with the "webbing" or Tantra. O.K.-What did I learn about weaving? About restoring my male or female with my yin yang that is often off balance for women living in this time and age. Most of us have learned to develop our masculine side that is needed to compete and make it worldwide. Great ability to have! However, if my female got diminished due to the dominant orientation toward fulfillment in earthly dimension are not just any longer.
Here's what Tantra-Kundalini.com female and male says: "according to the philosophy of Tantra, the entire universe is a manifestation of pure consciousness. In the universe, manifesting this pure consciousness seems to be divided into two poles or aspects, none of which can exist without the other.
One aspect, Shiva, is male, maintains a quality static and remains intangible identified with consciousness. Shiva has the power to be, but not the power of becoming or change. The other aspect, the Shakti, is feminine, dynamic, energetic and creative. Shakti is the great mother of the universe, because it is from her that every form is born.
According to Tantra, the human being is a universe. Everything in the Cosmos can be found within each individual, and the same principles that apply to the universe apply in the case of the individual. "
Aspects of female and male occur in women, just as they do in men. However, they are simply should not be considered as qualifications. To further illuminate the principles take a look at the list of & male and female characteristics, locate where you yourself in various areas of your life: family, intimate relationship, work and career, body, hobbies, etc.:
Male
Creative focus
Purposeful presence
Desire for truth
Geared towards the vision objectives &
One is & focused mind
Emotion of compassion
Looking at life from the outside
Fear of failure in life
Work before intimacy
Doing
Giving
Female
Creative flow
Open & connected
Desire for sourcing and support
Geared towards love and care
In an emotional & flow
Emotion confidence & gratitude
Looking at things inside
Fear of rejection & loss of love
Intimacy before work
Sta
Reception
Reintegrate female male, the spiritual with the sensual, the body with the soul, dealing with the totality of the receiver. Experiencing the totality is the source of pleasure in feeling, joy, happiness and Yes!!! It is up to each woman to come back to that whole. Tantric practice provides a guide to this totality as illustrated by transformative shifts in many women who worked with me here at TantraNova.
Waiting for your comments and thoughts on the subject of happiness! Elsbeth
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Dr. Elsbeth Meuth is a leader internationally renowned seminar, an expert trainer and the relationship of intimacy. She co-produced the DVD series of best-selling intimacy intimate creation & Love & Love creation. and is co-founder and Director of TantraNova Institute of Chicago. In the last decade, she has assisted hundreds of couples and individuals expand their underwear and love life. She and her partner were featured on the Showtime documentary Sexual Healing. http://www.tantranova.com/
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